Dr. Aaron Appelwick Dr. Aaron Appelwick

Why “Dr.” Means More Than a Title - It’s a Testament to Mental Performance

I used to be the athlete who did just enough in school to stay on the field. In high school, academics were never the goal, sports were. I wasn’t a bad student, but I wasn’t a good one either. I was never interested in learning for its own sake. School was simply a requirement to keep playing.

I used to be the athlete who did just enough in school to stay on the field. In high school, academics were never the goal, sports were. I wasn’t a bad student, but I wasn’t a good one either. I was never interested in learning for its own sake. School was simply a requirement to keep playing.

Then I joined the Air Force.

There, the narrative became even more limiting. My career field - Security Forces - was known more for grit than for academics. The running joke was, “You’ll be lucky to get an associate’s degree.” I internalized that belief. For years, I assumed higher education just wasn’t in the cards for me.

But then something happened.

I discovered the field of Sport and Exercise Science and later, Sport and Performance Psychology. For the first time in my life, I found myself wanting to learn. I wasn’t studying to stay eligible. I was studying because it fired me up. Because it made sense of my passion for high performance, mindset, and human potential.

That shift in perspective led me to earn my Master’s degree in Sport and Exercise Science… and eventually, a Doctorate in Sport and Performance Psychology.

But I didn’t get there by accident. I got there by applying the same mental performance strategies I now teach my athletes, executives, and high-performers. In particular, one framework changed everything:

Acceptance and Commitment Training (ACT)

ACT helped me:

  • Accept difficult thoughts (like “you’re not smart enough”) without letting them dictate my actions

  • Connect deeply with my core values: growth, resilience, contribution

  • Take committed action, especially when motivation faded or doubt crept in

Dr. Steven Hayes, one of the founders of ACT, once said:

“Success in life is not about how you feel, it’s about what you do in the service of what matters.”

That quote became my north star. It reminded me that I didn’t have to feel confident to take action. I just had to act in alignment with who I wanted to become.

Now, the title “Dr.” means so much more than credentials. It’s a symbol of a journey from disinterest to passion, from self-doubt to deep purpose.

If you’re reading this and struggling with confidence, identity, or clarity on your path, know this:
You are not defined by your past. You are defined by your values and your willingness to act in alignment with them.

This is the work I now do every day at Precision Mind Athletics - helping people just like you transform their mindset, unlock their performance, and rewrite their story.

Interested in working together?

Let’s talk about how mental performance coaching can help you move from stuck to unstoppable.

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Dr. Aaron Appelwick Dr. Aaron Appelwick

The Power of Goal Setting: Peak Performance in Athletes and High Performers

In the pursuit of performance excellence, goal setting is an important and often under utilized strategy for athletes and high performers. It’s more than a motivational tool - goal setting is a research driven practice that fosters direction, purpose, confidence, and measurable progress. When utilized effectively, it transforms aspirations into actionable steps that can be taken to bridge the gap between potential and achievement.

Why Goal Setting Matters

Athletes and high performers operate in competitive and high-stakes environments where the margin for error can be razor thin and the difference between winning and losing. By having goals one has created a roadmap that provides clarity in a chaotic landscape…….

In the pursuit of performance excellence, goal setting is an important and often under utilized strategy for athletes and high performers. It’s more than a motivational tool - goal setting is a research driven practice that fosters direction, purpose, confidence, and measurable progress. When utilized effectively, it transforms aspirations into actionable steps that can be taken to bridge the gap between potential and achievement.

Why Goal Setting Matters

Athletes and high performers operate in competitive and high-stakes environments where the margin for error can be razor thin and the difference between winning and losing. By having goals one has created a roadmap that provides clarity in a chaotic landscape. They align focus, reduce distractions, and Channel energy toward meaningful objective. Without having clear goals, even the most talented individuals risk struggling with stagnation, burnout, or becoming overwhelmed by the magnitude of their ambitions.

As athletes we often set lofty ambitions for ourselves like becoming a professional at our sport, qualifying for the Olympics, or breaking records. While this dreams are inspiring, they can also feel overwhelming and unattainable; and without a structured plan they often are. When the gap between our current abilities and ultimate aspirations appears too large, athletes may struggle with self-doubt, procrastination, or a sense of paralysis. by breaking these large ambitions into smaller, actionable goals, athletes can create a roadmap that transforms the seemingly impossible into manageable steps. Studies show that setting specific, challenging yet attainable goals leads to higher levels of performance when compared to vague or unstructured aspirations.

Benefits of Goal Setting

  1. Enhanced Focus and Motivation

    Goals act as your mental GPS, keeping us centered in the direction of what truly matters. When distractions or challenges push us off our path, a well-defined goal can serve as the bigger picture, reigniting motivation and putting us back on the path towards the objective.

  2. Improved Confidence

    Achieving small, incremental goals builds self-efficacy—the belief in one’s ability to succeed. This growing confidence cascades into higher aspirations and the resilience to tackle more demanding challenges.

  3. Structured Progression

    Long-term objectives can feel daunting without a structured approach. By breaking them into smaller, manageable milestones, we create a clear path forward, celebrating wins along the way to sustain momentum.

  4. Enhanced Emotional Regulation

    Goal setting fosters a sense of control and agency, reducing anxiety in high-pressure scenarios. Knowing there’s a plan in place helps us remain composed, even in the face of setbacks.

  5. Team Alignment and Cohesion

    For team sports or collaborative settings, shared goals unite individuals under a common purpose. This alignment enhances communication, trust, and collective performance.

Best Practices for effective Goal Setting

  • Balance Process and Outcome Goals: While outcome goals focus on results (winning a championship), process goals emphasize the behaviors and strategies needed to achieve them (completing weekly skills drills). Both are crucial to success, but process goals often provide the actionable steps needed to drive progress.

  • Use Visualization and Reflection: Athletes who visualize achieving their goals and reflect on their progress create a deeper connection to their objectives, reinforcing motivation.

  • Adapt Goals When Necessary: Flexibility is vital. Life is unpredictable, and adjusting goals to reflect current circumstances ensures they remain relevant and achievable.

  • Seek Support and Accountability: Coaches, teammates, or mentors can provide guidance, encouragement, and honest feedback to keep athletes on track.

Conclusion

Goal setting isn’t just a task to check off - it’s a dynamic process that leads to peak performance. By crafting meaningful, actionable goals, athletes and high performers can unlock their potential, achieve their aspirations, and thrive under pressure. Whether you’re training for your next big event or striving to reach new heights in your career, a well-structured goal-setting strategy is your secret weapon for sustained success.

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